Feeling the Need to Comment
Yesterday I noticed a new comment left at Worship House about our new Easter video, "The Cross: A Curse For Us?" The comment comes from Gary Buck, the Worship Pastor at Petra Christian Fellowship in New Holland, PA. Here's what Gary said:
"I like the video, but I really don't care for the narrator's voice."
Doesn't seem that bad, right? But the issue of the purpose these comments serve runs deep. Ask yourself how you would feel if the narrator's voice were yours. And then ask yourself how Gary would feel if I came up to him after a worship service and told him that I really enjoyed the music, but I didn't care for his voice. He would be wounded as I am wounded by his comment. Gary is certainly entitled to his opinion, and I certainly have my own opinions and sometimes I don't "care for" things. But there is a time and place to share your opinions and we need to think seriously before we open our mouths in public places and pass judgement.
There are all kinds of comments left about videos on these sights and Gary's certainly is nowhere near the worst I've seen. I've seen people say downright mean things about others videos like "don't quit your day job," and Gary's comment is not nearly that bad. People might say that I'm being overly sensitive, or that it's to be expected when you put something out there like we do when we make videos. And they would have a point. My point is that we, as Christians, need to heed or at least give pause and think before we speak. "If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all" may be cliche. It may be trite and overly simple and not always true. But in Ephesians 4:29, Paul says "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen." Now I'm not sure if what Gary said is unwholesome, but it certainly isn't helpful and I can't see any benefit in his or other negative comments left on sites like Worship House and Sermon Spice.
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