If You Can't Say Something Nice...
My father used to tell me, "if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all." That may be over simplifying things, but in light of some of the criticism I see flying around in Christian circles, I think it's something we need to think about. There is a disturbing trend in culture that I see infecting us as Christians. It's this need to be critical, to tear people down, to be just downright mean. In our space it shows up in the comments and reviews left about videos on sites like SermonSpice and WorshipHouse. People going as far as to say things like, "there's a reason why it's free." And here are a couple of comments pulled off WorshipHouse... "pretty lousy." That was all they said. This one might be the worst I've seen: "Really stupid. Not deep, not funny, just stupid.." And here's my favorite comment that one of our videos has received, "Nice concept, but it's been done. And better. By others." By who? When? What am I supposed to do with that?This is just a small sample of the comments out there. You can surf around and see them for your self. I'm not trying to whine or cry about it. I just think we need to have a frank and open conversation about this. Why do we, as Christians feel a need to tear down these films and videos (and here's the important part) without offering anything constructive to put in their place. Let me explain what I mean by way of a C.S. Lewis quote. Everybody loves Lewis, right? Once, when Lewis was criticized for oversimplifying the Gospel, he responded to his critic:
[He] would be a more helpful critic if he advised a cure as wellAll I'm saying is that if we feel the need to say something, and sometimes something needs to be said, let's be sure we're coming at it with a spirit of wanting to help, to encourage, to see our criticism used to further God's Kingdom and not just to tear down. And if we don't have anything helpful or constructive to offer, then why say anything at all?
as asserting many diseases. How does he himself do such
work? What methods, and with what success, does he employ
when he is trying to convert the great mass of storekeepers,
lawyers, realtors, morticians, policemen and artisans who surround
him in his own city?
Ya feel me?
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